Balance (mostly) restored

Came home from a very bad day to find M on the telephone, apologizing to the security system representative for his earlier meltdown as well as adjusting our protocols to the lesser stringent one I had wanted in the beginning. There are times when he does something that has that "men are idiots and I married…

Ranty and ragey kind of day

Advance warning: this is not my usual light-and-fluffy upbeat post. I always hope every day was a good day. Or at least a not quite as shitty as the shitty days. Stuff happens, though, and my workday has been vividly unpleasant. I hate when this happens. First my admin and the dreaded phrase (see prior post for…

“I hate my life.”

Disclaimer: I actually DO NOT hate my life; I love the major parts of it, dislike some minor things, and periodically wish I could rewrite or relive aspects of my personal history. However, I heard someone say that today, and as always it's was like fingernails scaping on chalkboard and has me grinding my teeth in…