Competitive, compartive, or some other spirit

A few occurrences this week ┬áhave me thinking about competition. When it is healthy, when it is less so, when it becomes something destructive to our systems. I do not think of myself as especially competitive. If pressed, I feel more likely to fold like a house of cards and forfeit. Unless I am having…

I feel like a mean girl today

I had 2 situations today in life and the office that make me feel like shit. Tough love is necessary sometimes, but it wreaks havoc when it becomes necessary when I am not expecting a issue to arise and feel unprepared to deal with it competently. The personal situation was with my young friend. She…